Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Top 10 Qualities Of A Friend

A real friend will always possesses these 10 qualities and even more which can be important for you. If you also give these qualities to your friend there is no chance that your friendship will ever break. These qualities are important for a lifetime friendship and that is what we all expect from a real friendship. If you have friends with these qualities you have to cherish them because these qualities of your friend are vital in your life.

Here are top 10 qualities of every friend should have which I agreed upon.


1. HONESTY - Honesty is the best policy to keep a friendship alive. A real friend will always tell the truth and never lie. Everyone wants a "true friend" and you will never maintain your friendship if you don't tell the truth, even if it hurts. If your friend discovers you know certain important facts which maybe hurts you and you hide this information you will lose trust and friendship is based upon bond.
 2. A Good Listener - You will need a friend to share your problems with. You don't want to talk with everyone about the problems you have and a real friend will listen and will try to give some useful advice. A friend will listen to your problems and give his or her opinion without interfering.
3. TRUSTWORTHINESS -Trust is an important aspect in every friendship. You share almost everything with your friend and also confidential information. You need to rely on your friend's word to keep in this information between you and your friend.


4. RESPECT - Everyone has different opinions and it is important your friend shows respect for your point of view. It is not necessary he agrees with your points and can be sometimes try to change your mind but he need always to respect you, even if he dis agree with you. Her opinion is always open.

5. MAKING FUN -A friend is not only valuable for your problems but you need someone to make fun with. Everyone needs to laugh and some humor is necessary in friendship

6) GOOD COMPANY - You will do many activities together with your friend. Maybe you are going together to a movie, theatre or a concert or you travel together. Your friend needs to be good company for enjoying your entertainment activity.

 7) PATIENCE - There are circumstances where patience of your friend is necessary. It is possible you complain about certain issues which you can't share with someone else. Patience is an important quality your friend needs to help you through this process.


8) FORGIVENESS - An important quality of a true friend. It is necessary when some problems arise between you and your friend. Everyone makes mistakes and sometimes they say things they don't mean. Forgiveness is important for maintaining your friendship and nobody will lose his or her best friend for a misunderstanding or a small conflict.

9) ENCOURAGEMENT - There are always periods in your life when you feel down or maybe a little bit depressed. A good friend will encourage his/her friend to do things for feeling better. Encouragement is a great quality every friend should have for helping each other through a difficult process.
10) CARING - A real friend will always care for you, in good and bad situations. If you are sick he will try to visit you as much as possible. He will always care for you no matter which problem you have and will give you the necessary support to reach certain goals



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10 comments:

Anne said...

nice post mare....

glad i have lots a friends possesssing these characterisitics... :)

Missus Cee said...

nice post sis. agree to all of them.

http://hahpiness.blogspot.com

shydub said...

Great post sis, I enjoyed watching the pictures.

Arvin U. de la Peña said...

ayos..i like number 10..

UMMA said...

Thanks for posting, you must be so lucky to have this kind of friends around you.

True friends indeed are like treasures.. its hard to find the real thing.

Hailey said...

I like the #2 & #3 - it is essential that trust exist in every relationship and friendship.

anne said...

girl yung pangatlong pics ikaw ba yan at ang bf mo? hehehe

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

I agree with you about those ten qualities. If your friend possesses them, then indeed he/she is a true friend indeed. But true friends are really hard to find for people are by nature fickle minded. Thanks for the post. God bless you always.

charmie said...

Yes, agree.True friend are hard to find. Treasure it if you found one. Thanks for the comment and the dalaw. God Bless!

Sherry said...

well said, I agree with you :D

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